Southern Tea Cake Cookies are the kind of recipe you keep tucked in your back pocket for when you want something simple, cozy, and not too sweet. Maybe you’re craving a cookie that tastes like a hug and goes perfectly with a hot cup of tea or coffee. Or maybe you’ve tried fancy desserts lately and just want that old-time flavor you grew up with. I’ve been there. These are tender, lightly sweet cookies with a soft bite and a whisper of warm spice. They’re the ones you pull out for front-porch chats and Sunday afternoons with family.
The Story Behind This Recipe
Here’s why I love this Southern Tea Cake Cookies: it’s budget-friendly and it tastes like a bakery treat. Southern Tea Cake Cookies are the kind of recipe you keep tucked in your back pocket for when you want something simple, cozy, and not too…
What are Tea Cakes?
Tea cakes are an old Southern classic, and depending on the family, they sit somewhere between a sugar cookie and a soft shortbread. Think lightly sweet, with the softest crumb and a cozy hint of vanilla and nutmeg. Unlike crispy cookies, these lean more tender and cake-like, which makes them lovely for dunking and perfect for folks who don’t love super sweet treats.
What makes tea cakes different from sugar cookies? The texture. Sugar cookies can be crisper and often decorated, while tea cakes keep it plain and simple. They’re meant to be homey and familiar. If you grew up in the South, you might remember these from church gatherings, school bake sales, or your grandma’s kitchen. In my family, we’d press the tops with a glass to get a gentle, flat look, then sprinkle just a touch of sugar. Nothing fancy, just honest baking.
Southern Tea Cake Cookies also store well, and they’re the kind of cookie that tastes even better the next day as the flavors settle. They’re perfect for gifting, potlucks, or just a quiet moment with tea. If you love Southern sweets, you might also enjoy a slice of this buttery Southern Pecan Praline Sheet Cake for special occasions.
Ingredients
Pantry Staples You’ll Need
- Unsalted butter – room temperature so it creams easily
- Granulated sugar – just enough for a gentle sweetness
- Egg – helps bind and adds richness
- Vanilla extract – the heart of the flavor
- Milk or buttermilk – for tenderness, buttermilk adds a tiny tang
- All-purpose flour – the base of the dough
- Baking powder – a light lift for that soft, cakey bite
- Salt – balances sweetness
- Nutmeg – classic, warm flavor that makes tea cakes taste nostalgic
Why These Ingredients Work
Butter and sugar create that soft, creamy base. The egg keeps the cookie tender. Vanilla and nutmeg do the heavy lifting on flavor, so use good vanilla if you can. Milk or buttermilk adds moisture and helps keep the texture light. Baking powder gives a bit of lift, which is why these are called tea “cakes” and not just cookies.
Craving more cookie nostalgia after these? Check out these Old Fashioned Fruitcake Cookies for a festive twist with dried fruit and spice.

How to Make Old Fashioned Southern Tea Cakes
Step-by-Step, No Fuss
1. Prep the oven and pans. Preheat your oven to 350°F. Line two baking sheets with parchment or lightly grease them.
2. Cream butter and sugar. In a large bowl, beat the butter and sugar together until light and fluffy, about 2 to 3 minutes. This traps air and sets you up for that tender crumb.
3. Add egg and flavor. Beat in the egg, vanilla, and milk or buttermilk until smooth. If the mixture looks a little curdled, don’t worry, it comes together with the dry ingredients.
4. Mix dry ingredients. In another bowl, whisk flour, baking powder, salt, and nutmeg. Slowly add the dry mix to the wet mix until just combined. Don’t overmix or you’ll lose that soft texture.
5. Chill if sticky. If the dough feels sticky, pop it in the fridge for 15 to 20 minutes. Chilled dough is easier to roll or scoop.
6. Shape. You can roll the dough on a lightly floured surface to about 1/4 inch thickness and cut rounds, or simply scoop into balls and flatten gently with a glass. I like to sprinkle a tiny bit of sugar on top before baking.
7. Bake. Bake for 8 to 10 minutes, just until the edges look set and the bottoms are barely golden. They should still look pale on top. Let them rest on the sheet for 2 minutes, then move to a rack to cool.
8. Enjoy. Brew some tea or coffee and enjoy warm or at room temp. These travel well, so they’re great for school lunches or potlucks.
“I baked these for my church group, and they vanished before the end of the meeting. Simple, soft, and just sweet enough without being heavy.”
For a true Southern-style spread, add a savory side like Fried Cornbread Southern Cornmeal Hoecakes. That gentle crunch with a soft tea cake for dessert hits all the comfort notes.
Recipe Success Tips
Little Details That Make a Big Difference
Use room temperature butter. It should give slightly when pressed, not melty. This helps it cream properly with the sugar.
Don’t overmix. Once the flour goes in, stir until just combined. Overmixing makes tough cookies.
Keep them pale. Tea cakes aren’t meant to be browned like traditional cookies. Pull them before they color on top.
Chill if needed. Warm kitchens make soft dough. A short chill firms it up and keeps the cookies from spreading too much.
Adjust flavor to taste. If you love nutmeg, add an extra pinch. If you prefer citrus, swap in lemon zest.
Storage. Keep in an airtight container at room temp for 4 days, or freeze baked cookies up to 2 months. The dough also freezes well. Thaw in the fridge before baking.
If you want a simple dessert you can throw together for a crowd, this easy 3-Ingredient Peach Cobbler Dump Cake is another go-to in my kitchen for last-minute company.
Recipe Variations to Try
Once you’ve made the classic, play around with flavors. The base dough is sturdy but forgiving, so it welcomes a little creativity.
Lemon or orange zest. Adds brightness and a light, fresh twist.
Almond extract. Swap half the vanilla for almond extract for a bakery-style flavor.
Cinnamon-sugar tops. Brush the tops lightly with milk and sprinkle cinnamon sugar before baking.
Glaze. Make a quick glaze with powdered sugar and milk. Drizzle over cooled cookies for a sweet finish.
Holiday spice. Add a pinch of cinnamon and cloves with the nutmeg for a festive version.
Chocolate dip. Dip half of each cooled cookie in melted chocolate and let set for a pretty party tray.
If you’re on a cookie roll and want something richer, these adorable Scrumptious Carrot Cake Cookies give you that cozy, spiced vibe with a soft texture too.
Common Questions
Why did my cookies spread too much?
Usually the dough was too warm or the butter too soft. Chill the dough for 15 minutes and try again. Also check that your baking sheets aren’t hot from the previous batch.
Can I make the dough ahead?
Yes. Wrap it tightly and refrigerate up to 3 days, or freeze up to 2 months. Thaw in the fridge overnight, then roll or scoop and bake.
Do I have to use nutmeg?
No, but it’s classic. You can leave it out or swap in cinnamon, cardamom, or lemon zest. I recommend at least a little warm spice to keep that nostalgic flavor.
How do I keep them soft?
Don’t overbake and store in an airtight container. Add a small slice of bread to the container if needed. The cookies will absorb a bit of moisture and stay soft.
What’s the best thickness?
About 1/4 inch. Thinner cookies bake faster and can get crisp. Slightly thicker gives you that soft tea cake bite.
A Sweet Little Ending for Your Baking Day
Soft, simple, and comforting, Southern Tea Cake Cookies are the kind of treat that makes you slow down and enjoy the moment. Keep the dough basic, avoid overbaking, and you’ll get that tender, not-too-sweet cookie every single time. If you want to read more on heritage versions, I love the stories and guidance in Authentic Mississippi Big Mama’s Southern Tea Cakes Recipe and this memory-rich Old Fashioned Southern Tea Cakes Recipe – Lana’s Cooking. Bake a batch, brew a cup, and enjoy the most peaceful cookie break of your week.
And when your sweet tooth wanders, try a creamy twist with this fun Cookies and Cream Pound Cake for your next gathering. Happy baking, friend.

Southern Tea Cake Cookies
Ingredients
Method
- Preheat your oven to 350°F (175°C). Line two baking sheets with parchment paper or lightly grease them.
- In a large bowl, beat the butter and sugar together until light and fluffy, about 2 to 3 minutes.
- Beat in the egg, vanilla, and milk or buttermilk until smooth. Don’t worry if the mixture looks a little curdled.
- In another bowl, whisk together the flour, baking powder, salt, and nutmeg. Slowly add the dry mix to the wet mix until just combined. Do not overmix.
- If the dough feels sticky, chill it in the fridge for 15 to 20 minutes to make it easier to scoop.
- Shape the dough into balls and flatten gently with a glass. Optionally, sprinkle a little sugar on top before baking.
- Bake for 8 to 10 minutes, just until the edges look set and the bottoms are barely golden. Let them rest on the sheet for 2 minutes, then transfer to a rack to cool.
- Brew some tea or coffee and enjoy these cookies warm or at room temperature.

